Yes, you heard me right! Anyone can redesign their life,
it's not about the possibility but it's about the choice we make to redesign that helps us take baby steps towards a complete makeover of our life.
Some may wonder,
I have a beautiful life already...
I absolutely need not redesign my life to make it any better...
Happy for those folks but do save this, to read later because life is not a cakewalk every single day. Time has the power to change the worse to beautiful and vice-versa in just no time!
Be ready to face everything in life. Accept what life has to offer you and create a masterpiece with what you have.
REMEMBER: You are just enough!
And here goes the lines for all those who feel that they are stuck up in life, feel rejected, find darkness everywhere...
Just RELAX! Everything in life can be redesigned.
Let me take you through a small incident. I have been living in my individual house for the past 8 years now along with my parents, Life was great! As a child, I always counted on my blessings. Having lived in an apartment for more than 10 years it was like a castle to move into a big house with a garden and huge mango trees. Honestly as the years passed by the sense of joy was fading away. We, humans, have a tendency to lose happiness and excitement as time passes as we had during the initial days. Beware that's a STOP SIGN!
Yes, this is when a person needs to redesign his/ her life!
Things at my house never seemed to excite me anymore! Home is supposed to be the happiest place! But why is it so Vapid I wondered! I started to rearrange things, hung quotes here and there, changed the position of the TV and the seating arrangement accordingly, replaced old paintings with new once. I did everything to make myself fall in love with my house and regain my excitement by redesigning my room.
After seeing a beautiful view of everything around I started to wonder and asked myself that when a place I stay needed so much alteration, Doesn't my life needed to be redesigned which I deal with every single day?
Yes It does, whispered my inner voice!
A sense of realization surmounted me and awakened my senses!
You may ask me that life is not gonna be the same everyday.. its not as easy to redesign as it is to redesign a room.
Yes! Agreed.
It's not about redesigning the circumstances... it's about redesigning your reaction to those circumstances that will create a change and helps us view life from a totally different perspective.
Try it!
For those of you who are wondering how to redesign your life! Here you go...
Step 1: Stop and Listen.
Before you begin, stop and connect with your inner self, Calm yourself down, listen to music, meditate, do whatever helps you calm yourself down and listen to your inner voice(Coz it whispers). Write down on a paper, everything that you feel is not working your way.Step 2: List down-Evaluate-Finalize.
List down all the possible ways which you think are solutions for your problems by brainstorming your options. You are not only widening your view but also opening up various possibilities.
Ask these questions to finalize your list of possible solutions for pushing them to the next stage:- Are my solutions realistic?
- Do I need anything that I can afford to make the changes happen in reality?
- Am I going to be dependent on anyone else to implement these changes in reality
Step 3: Choose your target and create a road map!
Now that you have your solutions jotted down,
- Prioritize them!
- Write down all the resources you have and what you need to add on to your bag to start your journey!
- have a support system, a set of people, your parents/friends, who can encourage you to keep going, this makes your transition easy.
Step 4: Take a step and continue each and every day! ACT!
- Now that you are completely aware of everything thing! Just put it in action...
- Break your journey into stages!
- Reward yourself with each stage's accomplishment.
- Stay focused!
Having reached the other side to the new you, the new home, the new job, the new dream, You will experience a sense of freedom, you will realize how capable you are in redesigning your life if you choose...
Are You Ready to redesign your life?
What are your steps towards redesigning your life?
Please share your experiences in the comments below.
REMEMBER: YOU ARE JUST ENOUGH!
-Sahithi
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